The Ritual of Conflict Resolution: Mediation
In an introduction to an edition of the journal “Cultural Anthropology” Kevin Carrico of Stanford University had this to say about ritual:
“Ritual is arguably a universal feature of human social existence: just as one cannot envision a society without language or exchange, one would be equally hard-pressed to imagine a society without ritual. And while the word “ritual” commonly brings to mind exoticized images of primitive others diligently engaged in mystical activities, one can find rituals, both sacred and secular, throughout “modern” society: collective experiences, from the Olympics to the commemoration of national tragedies; cyclical gatherings, from weekly congregations at the local church to the annual turkey carving at Thanksgiving to the intoxication of Mardi Gras; and personal life-patterns, from morning grooming routines to the ways in which we greet and interact with one another. Ritual is in fact an inevitable component of culture, extending from the largest-scale social and political processes to the most intimate aspects of our self-experience. “
When we talk about why mediation is so successful in resolving conflict the discussion for the most part centers upon “win-win” negotiation and restorative justice and indeed those are its laudable results. But why does it work? Understanding mediation as both as a social phenomena and as a secular ritual provide some welcome guidance into its inner workings.
In the Fall of 2003, William Johnson Everett, a renowned professor of theology and ethics at Yale Divinity School delivered a paper titled “Ritual Wisdom and Restorative Justice.” There, Everett noted that:” Symbols and rituals are indispensable for our efforts to contain, transform, and resolve conflicts. Without them, our conflicts are reduced to the exercise of brute force and the loss of all the values of cooperation and mutuality that make life in community possible.” Rituals explained Everett are “repeated patterns of action that have a symbolic character.” For Everett, ritual serves three purposes, it legitimates authority, it orders relationships and allows people to “rehearse” participation in conflict resolution. In a ritualistic context, engaging in mediation constitutes an effort to “to emulate a deeper or higher pattern that can lend legitimization to our daily search for justice. In comparing the symbols and rituals of the courtroom to mediation, Everett believes that mediation derives its meaning from the circle rituals that we may find in committees, task forces, teams and even the football huddle and which represent powerful examples of human ordering. Additionally, ritual help to order relationships in mediation by providing a pattern of organization including, setting boundaries, establishing certain patters and process as well as evoking certain scripts and scenarios all of which are there to guide the parties towards a process of what Everett calls “justice seeking.” Everett notes that in our daily lives, we constantly rehearse smaller rituals of restorative justice through our interplay with the media of film, literature and theater and the news where the drama of justice is repeatedly enacted for us in our daily lives.
A deeper understanding of the significance of ritual and symbols and how they play out in the larger social setting can be gained by the offerings of cultural anthropologists that study secular rituals.
Conflict resolution and it’s processes play an vital role in our social order. It is therefore incumbent on us to understand these issues in a social context in which symbols and ritual play a large part. So doing, not only gives us a far deeper perspective into how to resolve conflict but why we do so. Many studies of conflict resolution and mediation center around psychology and interest-based negotiation and while these play an important part, they don’t tell the whole story. The social dynamics of conflict resolution and it’s attendant rituals and symbols offer compelling explanations and pieces of the larger puzzle.
Here’s the link to Everett’s paper:
Click to access Ritual_Wisdom_Everett.pdf
Here’s a link to the Journal of Cultural Anthropology